in response to mamalee...first of all i am a mother of two and have been ever sence i was eighteen and now im thirty im now on my own again after my other half wanted to be physical no matter how hard life is there is always somewhere else to go it sounds like to me all your doing is asking for a hand out not a hand up you dont have a job no home and no car dont you think a job at this point in your life would better suit your life there are places you go like the womens resource center they not only help you with a job but even a home sometimes a car so in order for you to get anywhere in life you have to stand on our own feet and not expect anyone to help or ask for hand outs make your move first you will never get anywhere when you wait for things to come to you if you want it to change do something your self